Ever sit down and wonder, "I am in such a good place, I am truly blessed"? I recently had this epiphany as I was laying down in bed with just my night light on. Many people stress things that are not really important in life. I'm glad I no longer do that, it only wastes time and energy. Luckily, I know what I want in life, and I have so many dreams that I hope to aspire. Nothing feels better than knowing you have somewhere to go. I am at a point in my life in which I know where I want to be, who my friends are, who I want to love. I am being very pensive and it's probably because of how late it is, thinking at 2 a.m. is not safe. So to conclude, take a moment to think about what really matters. Take that and set it apart from everything else and hold on to it. The real world is very scary, but you can survive in it, I can survive in it. If you are holding on to any grudges, let them go. Allow it to disappear into space, grudges do not fix anything if anything it destroys you. Don't let that happen, be strong. For those who have their walls up, slowly but surely bring them down and allow yourself to become open minded. Trust me when I say it is easier said than done, but it is possible. It is okay to feel scared, or nervous to let someone new into your life, but with faith you have to hope it is only for the better. Dream big people, if it doesn't scare you then your dreams aren't big enough. Be real with others, and most importantly with yourself. Just call me Dr. Ili!-Ili